His eyes were blood-shot, dilated, lifeless. He crouched in a dank, musty corner, oblivious to his surroundings. Flies hovered near his face and arms. His clothes stank of filth and sweat. The child’s frail, undernourished body was covered with open sores, infested and crawling with wriggling, white larvae.

This child is not an Ethiopian orphan, but he is an example of the millions of children worldwide who live in poverty. Image by Sarah B. Costello
The four-year-old boy was one of many forgotten and unwanted children, destined to a lonely and short life in a rural Ethiopian orphanage. When adoption agent Mary Lib Mooney discovered him, he appeared to be on the brink of death.
“I tried to discourage the family from taking him because I knew he was dying,” said Mooney who traveled to Ethiopia to retrieve the child and deliver him to a waiting American family. “I looked into his eyes and he didn’t look like was even there. But the family wanted him. This child is God’s gift to them.”
Saving children is an occupation Mooney does not take lightly. She has witnessed disturbing and heart-wrenching conditions in third world, dilapidated orphanages over the past decade as the executive director of International Adoption Guides, Inc. (IAG). Yet she has also experienced unspeakable joy in delivering a long-awaited child to a family, witnessing a new mother give birth and watching in awe as orphans kissed the feet of their “rescuers” in gratitude.
Raging disease, unleashed violence, widespread famine, addictions, impending sex and slave trafficking and poverty have attributed to the growing international orphan population. Millions of unfortunate children are abused, molested, abducted, neglected and forced to fend for themselves. Mooney and her agency are striving to make a dent in this colossal problem by enabling infertile couples to adopt and providing orphans homes with loving families.
“Children don’t have a lot of rights,” Mooney said. “We need more advocates for the children. The abuse so many of these children go through is [heartbreaking]. A lot of people [ask me] how I do it, because I’ve been to some terrible places. I do it one child at a time.”
INTERNATIONAL ADOPTION GUIDES

According to Ethiopian Relief, there are more than 3.8 million orphans in Ethiopia. In 2006, a mere 731 orphans were adopted by American families.
IAG is a nonprofit international child placement agency based in South Carolina, currently partnered with programs and orphanages in Ethiopia and Kazakhstan.
As executive director, Mooney works alongside families in the process of adopting, travels to programs and orphanages abroad, conducts home studies (which involve interviews with prospective parents, observing and training parents for adoptions) and contributes to various humanitarian efforts.
Mooney has a passion for international orphans. Her desire to help others extends to aiding families in the adoption process, understanding full well the hardships of infertility and the difficulties that can accompany adoptions.
“[My husband and I] had problems having children,” Mooney said. “We were doing fertility treatments and had one baby from in vitro fertilization, but we wanted more. It was really difficult to do a domestic adoption so we started looking into international [adoptions].”
In 1995, Mooney and her husband began the process of adopting a child from Russia, but the ordeal ended in a disaster when the adoption fell through.
“We had such a terrible experience that I wanted to get involved and make adoptions easier for other people,” said Mooney.
The experience, though difficult, provided a platform for Mooney to become an advocate against adoption frauds and help couples and individuals through the grueling and arduous process of adopting internationally. Mooney, who earned a degree in human services at Elon University in Elon, N.C., became a director for a domestic adoption agency where she mostly performed home studies.
Mooney yearned to do more internationally, an interest that was piqued through connections with adoption programs in China, Guatemala and Belize. Her passion for working alongside parents and aiding international orphans inspired her to establish International Adoption Guides, Inc. in 2002.
IAG staff are experts in processing international adoptions. Most have adopted children and have the necessary experience in guiding prospective parents. Staff are stationed at the South Carolina agency and abroad at the international programs.
The Ministry of Woman’s Affairs, the Ministry of Education in Kazakhstan, the U.S. Embassy in Kazakhstan and the U.S. Embassy respects the agency for their clean track record and success in placing children.
A DIFFFICULT PROCESS
Due to the rise in child trafficking and black market baby buying and selling, the U.S. has begun cracking down on adoptions, making international adoptions a longer and more difficult process.
“Our [government] is so scared somebody’s going to make money off of selling babies,” Mooney said. “Every business has the ability to be corrupt, but our government is so worried people are going to steal babies that they don’t want any adoptions to happen.”
Mooney says that although the U.S. government is trying to prevent trafficking and child abductions, millions of orphans suffer from the lack of guardianship and parental care, often living in filthy, unhealthy and even life threatening conditions.
“[The government] needs to severely punish the people caught [abducting children], but don’t punish the children,” Mooney said. “[The government] makes the regulations so hard that kids can’t be adopted so they’re keeping the children from finding homes.”
In a world populated with millions of orphans, it seems adoptions would be easy. There is a high demand and a great number of children who need families. But adoptions are increasingly becoming more difficult, said Mooney. And she believes it will only get worse as the U.S. government continues to enforce strict policies, and countries begin shutting down programs.
“It’s really difficult to adopt,” Mooney explained. “A lot of people do not realize how hard it is. You see, we have all these children in foster care [and orphanages], but in actuality we don’t have a lot of kids available.”
The process of adopting can be extremely lengthy. Not only do U.S. regulations slow the process, but other countries have also begun to crackdown on the numbers of adoptions processed annually.
“When I started [traveling] to Ethiopia, we were getting families in and out in six months and now it’s five years,” Mooney said. “Guatemala was four months, then a year and now it’s closed [to adoptions].”
Many countries have enforced restrictions on the number of adoptions that can be

Image courtesy of fwcc.org.
processed annually. China, once the biggest countries for adoptions, recently created stricter adoption policies that prevent homosexual couples, singles and obese individuals from adopting.
“Basically, there’s less places to adopt children, but there’s the same number of people wanting to adopt. So you get a back log,” Mooney said.
The U.S. government does not allow adoptions without proper paperwork and birth certificates to ensure that children are actual orphans and not stolen or sold.
“People go to foreign countries to do mission work and they find children they know are orphans, but nobody knows where the mother or father went so the child doesn’t have any papers. As far as they know, somebody bought or stole the child,” Mooney said.
Mooney began traveling to Ethiopia when there were less than nine international adoption agencies in the United States. She registered as a Non Government Official, which enabled her to perform “business” in the country.
“It’s just a power struggle because you have to go where the kids are,” Mooney said. “Once a country shuts down, people move on to another country. I’m always looking for new countries [to set up programs].”
For more information about Mooney’s work with international orphans,visit International Adoption Guides













